Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear

最快速度看完了330万字，也如愿得到了我要的结果，再次跌代了我对生命的意义的认知：之前认为：人活着的意义就是去搞明白的这个过程的意义，原来，搞不明白，才是有意义的，搞明白了，就真的没意义了。宇宙存在的意义是什么？智慧生物存在的意义是什么？

感觉很好，看过之后心里还是觉得很温暖，这样的男主也真的少，难得两人互相喜欢，心里虽然对未来惶恐不安不确定，仍然能够勇敢面对，才能不错过，获得真爱！婚前真需要睁大眼睛，婚后确实要睁一眼闭一眼，这样才能包容，和谐。不错的暖文

这是一本想看第二遍的书，从书中我获得了Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear自我成长做一个成熟的人，必然是一个独立的个体，有着明确而灵活的自我界限。也就是能知道哪些事是该做的，哪些事是不该做的，并能根据情境来调整这些规则。实现灵活的自我并不是一件容易的事情，很多时候我们都被自己内化的界限所禁锢，却从未知道，我们为了忠诚于这些规则付出了惨痛的代价。一个灵活的自我应该是这样的：我积极完成领导交代的工作，我尽力了但没有完成，那就不完成吧。我可以认真，当我不够认真的时候，就不认真吧。我可以努力，但当我今天累了不想努力的时候，我就放过自己吧。…

［2018-04-28 第③②本］ 一封信❤ 一句话，一行话，一段话❤ 彼此相望，终不厌❤ 你与我 未曾相见 见或者不见 见了或许不见 而情谊却因这份书信往来的通道 温暖了我们读者的心❤ 我们念念不忘，亦不要执着于他们的结局 是友谊，是亲人般的情谊 遗憾也是一种美 你：查令街十字街84号；可爱的店员们；英国 我：海莲；美国 看到过一句话，很有韵味：有句话想念了与你听～ 其实作为我自己，我没有看到海莲和弗兰克之间的爱情，并不是所有陌生的感情都走到爱情，他们之间的连接，即是书商和书友的联系，又是英与美的联系，还是两个志趣相投者的联系，是你来我往互帮互助的联系，当然是一份情谊。 当然啦，每个人观看的感受不同，我没体会到的，也许你，刚好察觉了。 我爱极了那种与心有灵犀的前人冥冥共读时而戚戚于胸、时而被耳提面命的感觉。（书摘） 文中把出现的剧集划线了下（不过肯定会有漏缺） >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 斯蒂文森《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 兰多的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 纽曼的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 奎勒-库奇的系列《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 沃尔顿的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 洛布经典文库 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 沃尔顿的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 德·托克维尔的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 项狄传》 >> 柏拉图的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 姆的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 约翰逊的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 约翰·多恩全集》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 弗吉尼亚·吴尔夫的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 坎特伯雷故事集》 >> M.德拉菲尔德的《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》 >> 《Objects in the Mirror Are Further Than They Appear》

看到那个瑾宁生孩子那里就看不下去了，太鬼扯了，不知道有没有同感的人，果断放弃不看了